FYI…this is a LONG post, be forewarned.
If you recall past posts, we were trying to figure out what to do about a honeymoon. Everyone bailed on us for watching the kids, and I can count on less than one hand, the amount of close friends I have here. So that left us with no one, as my family is all out-of-town too. I was really trying not to be depressed about not getting a honeymoon, but yesterday the sun broke through the clouds…
My wonderful amazing sister gave up her vacation with her friends to spend 5 days with our kids. I don’t think I could thank her enough for giving up her time for us, as we won’t get the time alone for years. She knows how much we love her for it! Love you Sissy Poo! She’s like a second mother to the kids, so it will be special for all of them. I know I have to get to the Top 5, so without further ado..my Top 5 is about…
NEW YORK CITY and Honeymooning
Some couples don’t place a huge importance on honeymoons, but I totally believe that every couple deserves and requires time alone at the beginning of their marriage/or without kids, to nurture and invest in your relationship. Your relationship will suffer over time if you do not put the work into it, and Andrew and I have made a point since we started dating to carve out alone time for ourselves sans kids. We still do that now that we’re married, and we will continue to do that. Kids won’t suffer if their parents are gone for a weekend, or a date night, but they will suffer if the marriage is not nurtured. Date nights and trips are essential for a health marriage, and it helps keep you in love with each other. Plus, sex in a hotel room on a vacation with only you and your spouse is sexy.
Think of your marriage as a beautiful flower that you lovingly plant. As time goes by, you have to keep watering and giving it food, or else it’s going to die. If you don’t give that plant the love and food, it’s going to wither beyond all recognition and become an empty shell. But if you do feed it, love it, water it, then the plant will continue to flourish as the years go by, and it will grow such deep roots that you can never tear it apart. Dates, sex, honeymoons, flirting, weekends away (if you can find a sitter)…those are all food for your marriage.
Oh my gosh, I am so freaking excited to see this musical on Broadway. I read most of the “Wicked” series by Gregory Maguire, and fell in love with Wicked. We missed it in Seattle this past October, but now we get a chance to see it on Broadway! Score!
The Wizard of Oz is my favorite movie of all time, and I have always loved the Wicked Witch. I really can’t wait to see this, I don’t think I can say that enough!!
3) Statue of Liberty
This one is pretty self-explanatory. I know that as of right now Ellis Island is closed due to Hurricane Sandy, but we can still take a harbor cruise to see it.
Being a newly minted United States Citizen, this is at the top of my list. Not much else to say than that…it pretty much explains itself.
4) Museum of Natural History
Dinosaurs! History! More Dinosaurs!!!!!
Another one on my must see list, I have fantasized about this forever ever since I read “Relic” in high school. I loved that book! Do you know how excited I am to walk through this museum and see a T-Rex skeleton? I often wanted to study paleontology/archeology when I was growing up, and history has always fascinated me.
5) Alone Time/Central Park/ 9/11 Memorial
I wanted to write about all three of these, so I’m lumping them all together. I am excited for alone time with my husband, and especially to travel with him sans kids. I’ve never done that before, been on a vacation with the man who I love, ever, so this is going to be super fun. An Adult vacation! I can’t wait to explore NYC with him, and to walk hand in hand through Central Park. Maybe we’ll take a clichéd horse and buggy ride, or maybe we’ll rent a boat and paddle across the lake, or just sit on a bench and people watch as we eat an ice cream cone.
Andrew’s one request for this honeymoon was visiting the 9/11 Memorial, and I am happy to go visit that with him. Being a soldier, 9/11 was the turning point in his career, and it means so much to him to see this…and I’ll be the forever supportive wife who holds her husband’s hand as we go there.
P.S….yeah I know this Top 5 was all over the place tonight, but oh well!